In her first contribution to Beyond Psychology, Raya Goldstein takes us into the myth of Mother Hulda. Through the lens of fairy tales, she explores the wild woman archetype and the primordial mother, revealing how stories preserve women’s wisdom while also exposing the fears that have long surrounded feminine power.
Most of us are probably familiar with the Grimm Brothers’ fairytale Frau Holle, or at least with other figures that carry the symbolic meaning of Mother Hulda. The old woman who lives outside society yet preserves great wisdom is a recurring figure in literature, and especially in fairytales, where she often appears as a wild woman archetype. Even though she is the keeper of wisdom, she is at first described as frightening and uncanny, having large teeth. This immediately raises the question of how these apparent paradoxes – wisdom and fright – can coexist and mirror each other.
The Primordial Mother Archetype
Overall, the great treasury of myths surrounding the figure of Frau Holle attributes to her different names, places, and qualities, all of which can be subsumed under the image of the primordial mother. The primordial mother can be understood as an archetype that unites the power of creation, the guidance of destiny, the gift of safety, and at the same time the force of challenge. The balance between reward and trial offers fertile ground and security for personal growth, thereby supporting processes of healing. In this way, the ambivalent image of this archetype symbolizes the wholeness of being and resonates with the rhythms of nature.
Goddess Roots and the Journey Inward
As already suggested, the scope of the myth is also reflected in her name, which can, among other things, be traced back to the Germanic goddess Holla. Due to the strong similarities among the various Germanic goddesses, one may also recognize in Frau Holle the features of the benevolent goddesses Hulda or Berchta, as well as Freyja. Thus, a broad spectrum of femininity is united in this figure, which symbolically represents the journey inward and embodies the connection to the womb, a portal to intuition and inner wisdom. At the same time, she mirrors the cycle of life and the process of maturation, while guiding the soul through transformation.
The Fairy Tale of Frau Holle
In this article, we will explore the different facets of Frau Holle, focusing on Hulda as a demon, as a channel between two dimensions, and as an archetypal elder. First, a bit of context for those who do not have the storyline fresh in mind, using the narrative as presented in the Grimms’ Kinder- und Hausmärchen (KHM).
After the death of her father, the beautiful and diligent daughter lives with her stepmother and the stepmother’s own ugly and lazy child, who is openly favored. One day, while spinning, the diligent girl drops her spindle into a well. Her stepmother demands the impossible: that she retrieve it. In despair, the girl throws herself into the well and awakens in another world.
There she meets Frau Holle, after first completing several tasks along the way. By working hard and fulfilling the duties Frau Holle gives her, she earns a good life in return. When Frau Holle finally leads her back to the earthly realm, she is showered with a rain of gold. Returning home, she is welcomed with sudden affection by her stepmother and stepsister, who are eager to share in her fortune.
Determined that her own daughter should also gain such wealth, the stepmother sends the lazy child on the same path. Yet, unlike her sister, she shirks her tasks both on the way and in Frau Holle’s household. When Frau Holle sends her back, she too expects a golden reward. Instead, she is covered with pitch, which clings to her forever.
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Demon, Witch, or Wild Woman Archetype?
At the beginning, Frau Holle appears as a demon or wild woman archetype, with long teeth, flowing hair, and magical powers. Yet in fairy tales, a demon does not necessarily mean pure evil. As Lutz Röhrich notes, demons were once understood as supernatural beings who could both heal and harm. Frau Holle likewise embodies this ambivalence: she punishes the selfish, but she also protects and rewards the open-hearted. Her appearance recalls the fairytale witch, yet such figures were never one-sided. Their meaning depended on context, carrying the power to both nurture and destroy.
Femininity as the Other
This very ambivalence mirrors how femininity has historically been portrayed. Women were cast as the Other, defined in contrast to the male world – mysterious, uncontrollable, dangerous. The attempt to define “femininity” always revealed its uncontainable nature: women could not be reduced to one fixed role. Here we see the cultural root of a fear that still lingers – the fear of women’s power. For to embody one’s depth, intuition, and wisdom was often to risk being branded a witch, a demon, or worse: evil itself.
And yet, fairy tales also hold another truth. They were spaces where women’s lived wisdom was preserved and transmitted. Through telling these stories, women wove their knowledge into cultural memory, ensuring that beneath the stereotypes and fears, their voices would continue to speak.
The Wild Woman Archetype as Threshold Guardian
The concept of the wild woman archetype is therefore neutral and does not necessarily mark Frau Holle as evil. Those who enter her realm must work hard, but even more importantly, they must act with an open heart and selfless intent, rather than being driven by a desire for recognition or wealth. In this way, Frau Holle reflects many of our inner demons. She also serves as a bridge between two worlds: the earthly realm and the otherworld, symbolized by the well, which functions as a portal.
The Well as Womb and Sacred Site
At the same time, the well is a sacred site, symbolizing the cycle of becoming and passing away. Birth itself can be associated with the well: by falling through it into the otherworld, one is reborn. Thus, the well also carries a feminine connotation. It can be read as a womb, inseparable from nature because of its watery element. The symbol of the well therefore embodies a double connection to nature: first, through the water itself, which is an essential part of nature, and second, through its function as a vessel that generates new life.
Frau Holle as Elder and Teacher
From these two functions we can move further to the meaning of Mother Hulda as an elder, a primordial mother. Frau Holle is often seen as a mother goddess whose roots reach back into matriarchal prehistory and who was, in a sense, preserved through fairytales. One task stands out in particular: that of education. Yet this must be understood on a much deeper level, for – as the fairytale demonstrates – it is about guiding a girl toward her femininity and intuition. She is thus not educated merely to fit into society, but primarily led to her own self, so that she may eventually stand up for herself.
Learning from the Inner Mother
Symbolically, this is reflected in the figure of Frau Holle: the woman of nature, also seen as primal womb and matrix, carries a profound and intimate meaning. She takes the child into herself, nurtures it, protects it, and imparts to it primordial knowledge. But when the child has matured, it must go out into the world. Despite her great significance, temporality is therefore essential.
Frau Holle is aware of her function, and so it happens with the beautiful girl: once grown into a young woman, she is overcome with homesickness for the earthly realm. Contrary to what one might expect, Frau Holle is glad about the young woman’s wish, for she has learned to listen to her intuition – her inner mother. Thus, Frau Holle’s task is fulfilled, and she can open her space for other girls, guiding them back into connection with themselves.
Even though Frau Holle is no longer present as a figure, she remains ever-present by having passed on her language – the language of Mother Nature. In this way she teaches not only her craft, but also what is much more significant for fairytales in general: the trust in the goddess within every woman.
How do these three dimensions of Frau Holle – demon, threshold guardian, and archetypal elder – reveal the portals to our own inner depths?
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Conclusion: Collective Healing Through the Wild Woman Archetype
In conclusion, it should be emphasized that Frau Holle is a figure to be understood on a much deeper level than one might assume after a first reading of the fairytale. Even the two figures only briefly mentioned here, Goldmarie and Pechmarie, are to be read metaphorically: they represent opposing poles that must be brought back into balance. This balance can be attained with the help of the almighty primordial mother, Frau Holle.
The ongoing significance of the fairytale also becomes clear: only with the wisdom that Frau Holle imparts can one find one’s own strength and inner truth. By realizing that the power of the primordial mother, once encountered, lies within oneself, one learns to value intuition. The fairytale thus has the capacity to help human beings return to what is original and embark on a deeper journey to themselves. As a wild woman archetype, Frau Holle opens the portals to our depths and thereby supports collective healing on a profound level.
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