Healing The Mother Wound:  What is it & How to do it?

Healing The Mother Wound: What is it & How to do it?

Reading time: 8 minutes The relationship with your mother is the first place where your nervous system learns what it means to be in relationship at all. Long before you can think, speak, or understand your environment, your body is already forming conclusions about...
What Does Decentering Men Actually Mean? The Powerful Truth Most Women Never Learn

What Does Decentering Men Actually Mean? The Powerful Truth Most Women Never Learn

Reading time: 12 minutes Decentering men means taking yourself back. It is the end of the unconscious arrangement in which male approval, male desire, and male-defined systems get to be the organizing center of your life. It is not a man-hating concept. It is not...
Intergenerational Trauma: How Inherited Pain Shapes Your Life

Intergenerational Trauma: How Inherited Pain Shapes Your Life

Reading time: 10 minutes If there is one thing I have seen over and over again in my work with clients from all over the world, it is this. We all carry the same invisible wound. A deep sense of unworthiness, a quiet shame about who we truly are, and a constant fear...
This Is Why We Fight: The Emotional Anatomy of Polarization

This Is Why We Fight: The Emotional Anatomy of Polarization

Reading time: 9 minutes Lately I have been feeling into the state of the world, and especially the state of the online world. What I see happening collectively mirrors what happens within each of us individually. The fights, the outrage, the quickness to label and...