This Is Why Independence Feels So Scary (The Real Reason)

This Is Why Independence Feels So Scary (The Real Reason)

Reading time: 8 minutes To become an independent woman, liberated from the systems, relationships, and conditioning that kept her small, you have to be willing to say no to those systems. And if you have ever wondered why independence feels so scary, even when you...
What Does Decentering Men Actually Mean? The Powerful Truth Most Women Never Learn

What Does Decentering Men Actually Mean? The Powerful Truth Most Women Never Learn

Reading time: 12 minutes Decentering men means taking yourself back. It is the end of the unconscious arrangement in which male approval, male desire, and male-defined systems get to be the organizing center of your life. It is not a man-hating concept. It is not...
From Good Girl to Free Woman: The Death of Patriarchal Womanhood

From Good Girl to Free Woman: The Death of Patriarchal Womanhood

Reading time: 12 minutes Lately, I’ve been reading The Tragedy of Heterosexuality by Jane Ward, and although I haven’t finished it yet, I’m hooked on the theme. It’s all about breaking free from the cultural chokehold of gender roles, norms, and the white-supremacist,...