Healing The Mother Wound:  What is it & How to do it?

Healing The Mother Wound: What is it & How to do it?

Reading time: 8 minutes The relationship with your mother is the first place where your nervous system learns what it means to be in relationship at all. Long before you can think, speak, or understand your environment, your body is already forming conclusions about...
Feeling Disconnected From Your Baby After Birth: What Nobody Tells New Mothers

Feeling Disconnected From Your Baby After Birth: What Nobody Tells New Mothers

Reading time: 20 minutes You did not expect it to feel like this. You expected the love to arrive the way you had been told it would. Immediate. Overwhelming. A rush of something so complete it would reorganise everything else around it. You had seen it on the faces...
This Is Why Women Keep Choosing The Wrong Man

This Is Why Women Keep Choosing The Wrong Man

Reading time: 13 minutes Most women already know. They know he is not the right one. They know this is not the life they actually want. Somewhere beneath the performance of contentment, they know they have accepted second best. And they stay anyway. Not because they...
Healing the Father Wound: From Good Girl to Sovereign Woman

Healing the Father Wound: From Good Girl to Sovereign Woman

Reading time: 15 minutes You don’t think about him that much. Or maybe you do, but not in the way that seems significant. He’s just your father. He did his best. He provided. He was there, mostly. And still, the father wound leaves its traces everywhere....
The Body Keeps the Birth: An Ecological Understanding of Birth Trauma and Healing

The Body Keeps the Birth: An Ecological Understanding of Birth Trauma and Healing

Reading time: 17 minutes What if birth trauma is about what was left unfinished? In this article Kai Njeri writes about how the body finds its way back to recovery through a womb ecology lens. There is a particular kind of silence that can follow birth, a silence that...
Why Breaking Free From Patriarchy Feels Like Dying (And Why You Have to do it Anyway)

Why Breaking Free From Patriarchy Feels Like Dying (And Why You Have to do it Anyway)

Reading time: 7 minutes To become a sovereign woman and start with breaking free from patriarchy, you have to be willing to say no to systems that keep you small. But that’s not as easy and logical as it sounds. Because you have been brought up into these systems from...
Emotional Eating: Why Willpower Was Never the Problem

Emotional Eating: Why Willpower Was Never the Problem

Reading time: 8 minutes Today, many people have already recognized that not all of their eating is the same. There is the kind of eating that comes as the result of a slow but clear signal from the body that energy is decreasing and that the system needs fuel. The...